6 cards · intermediate
Communication Spread
A six-card spread for examining the communication dynamic in a specific relationship — what's being said, what's being heard, and what isn't being said yet.
The positions
- 01
What You Say
The content of your communication — what you actually express.
- 02
What They Hear
What lands when you speak — often different from what you said.
- 03
What They Say
Their actual communication.
- 04
What You Hear
What lands for you when they speak.
- 05
What Isn't Being Said
The unsaid material — fears, needs, truths neither of you has named.
- 06
What Would Open the Channel
The shift, gesture, or honesty that would restore real conversation.
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